Why I'm Self-Publishing This Time Around


Okay, I've completely fallen off the blog wagon. I can't even remember the last time I wasn't writing a script, or editing my book, or working on the magazine. It's been an insane few months. We've been traveling with church, staying busy with friends and family, working a whole lot, and potty training our toddler. All good things, all good things. But it's nice to be back on this space again, if only for myself.

Why I'm Self-Publishing This Time Around


Okay, I've completely fallen off the blog wagon. I can't even remember the last time I wasn't writing a script, or editing my book, or working on the magazine. It's been an insane few months. We've been traveling with church, staying busy with friends and family, working a whole lot, and potty training our toddler. All good things, all good things. But it's good to be back on this space again, if only for myself.

First Comes Love by Emily Giffin: A Review

Summer is in full swing and, guys, I know you need a good beach read. Am I right? You might actually need more than one because, if you're anything like me, you're going to sail through Emily Giffin's latest novel First Comes Love in less than two days.

I swear, her books just keep getting better and better.



First Comes Love: A Summary

Growing up, Josie and Meredith Garland shared a loving, if sometimes contentious relationship. Josie was impulsive, spirited, and outgoing; Meredith hardworking, thoughtful, and reserved. When tragedy strikes their family, their different responses to the event splinter their delicate bond.
 
Fifteen years later, Josie and Meredith are in their late thirties, following very different paths. Josie, a first-grade teacher, is single—and this close to swearing off dating for good. What she wants more than the right guy, however, is to become a mother—a feeling that is heightened when her ex-boyfriend’s daughter ends up in her class. Determined to have the future she’s always wanted, Josie decides to take matters into her own hands.
 
On the outside, Meredith is the model daughter with the perfect life. A successful attorney, she’s married to a wonderful man, and together they’re raising a beautiful four-year-old daughter. Yet lately, Meredith feels dissatisfied and restless, secretly wondering if she chose the life that was expected of her rather than the one she truly desired. 
 
As the anniversary of their tragedy looms and painful secrets from the past begin to surface, Josie and Meredith must not only confront the issues that divide them, but also come to terms with their own choices. In their journey toward understanding and forgiveness, both sisters discover they need each other more than they knew . . . and that in the recipe for true happiness, love always comes first.
 
Emotionally honest and utterly enthralling, First Comes Love is a story about family, friendship, and the courage to follow your own heart—wherever that may lead.



First Comes Love: What I Think

I have to note that this novel first delighted me on a kind of superficial level because it's set in Atlanta, and I happen to be an Atlantan. I love my city, and although I spend far less time in Buckhead than Emily's characters do, she did a beautiful job of showcasing the city. Some of my favorite restaurants are mentioned and having the novel take place where I live helped me get a stronger grasp on the setting, which is always a bonus.

That being said, Emily surprised me with this one. I watched an interview with her recently where she said her characters are growing along with her, and that their struggles are becoming more and more complex. With each and every book she releases, Emily has progressively moved away from light-hearted chick lit and into the here and now, where her stories are straight-up messy, complex, and full of the intensity that real life and real families bring. First Comes Love does not tie things up into a pretty bow, although it certainly left me feeling satisfied - if unsettled - and proud(er) to have followed along with Emily's writing journey all these years. She is a damn fine storyteller.

Neither Josie nor Meredith is a very likeable character. In fact, they both showcase some of the uglier parts of myself and there was more than one moment during my reading when I had to stop and digest the story. But what Emily does so beautifully with these sisters is make me root for them, even while I disapprove of their actions or motives. Josie and Meredith are bitter and angry, sometimes for what seems like made-up reasons or even no reason at all, and the undercurrent of loss that flows through the book is what has the biggest impact on their relationship. They've spent over a decade of their lives making choices that reflect the pain of losing their brother. And isn't that what we do? We hold on to what is gone and think, somehow, we can change it all by reliving it over and over? Emily shows us that this is not the way to go. But, like Josie and Meredith, we all have to figure that out for ourselves.

First Comes Love is a tale of two sisters that had me thinking of my own siblings, and realizing that the stuff between families that's never fully settled is just a natural, and perhaps necessary, part of living and loving. For anyone who picks up Emily Giffin's latest thinking (because of the title or cover) that it's going to be reminiscent of Something Borrowed or Something Blue, they might be disappointed. First Comes Love is not that kind of book.

I think it's even better.

If you want to learn more about Emily Giffin or her fabulous novels, please visit her official website here. You can also like her on Facebook or follow her on Twitter and Instagram @EmilyGiffin and @EmilyGiffinAuthor.

Please note, I received a free copy of First Comes Love in exchange for an honest review.


Straight, White, Cisgender Seeking Answers


I don't normally comment here on current events, at least not in any definable way. I save that for Twitter or Facebook and even then I limit my opinions, sometimes because it's not appropriate and sometimes because my heart just can't handle the trolling.

Invincible Summer by Alice Adams: A Review

The high today is supposed to reach 86 degrees, so even though we've got a whole month before summer officially begins, it feels like it's already here. And I'm totally okay with that because 1) IT'S SUMMER HELLO and 2) what better time is there to read a book called Invincible Summer?

(How many times can I say "summer" in one paragraph?)

I requested this book from Netgalley a month or so ago, and it's got all the makings of a beach read plus a little more substance. For my complete review, keep reading...

Gorgeous cover!

In Which I Ramble About Writing


I just finished the sequel to The Best Kept Secret, and now it's with my beta readers. It felt incredible to complete the work on those last few chapters, as well as on Emma's story, and despite the work that remains in terms of getting the book ready for publication, I AM SO DONE.

The Year We Turned Forty by Liz Fenton and Lisa Steinke: A Review

Happy Monday! This was a crazy/busy weekend for us, especially since I spent a big part of it prepping to begin my Whole45 today, but it looks like this week is going to be a bit slower. I'm looking forward to a little relaxation!

If you're also in need of a pick-me-up, might I suggest a book? That's my prescription for all the stressful things in life, and today I'm sharing my review of Liz Fenton and Lisa Steinke's lovely third novel, The Year We Turned Forty.

Get your wallets ready, guys. You're going to want to head to Amazon when we're done here.